Saturday cleaning is hard enough - but when it's raining I just want to lay around with a cup of tea and watch some how to show. I had the tea, but I had to get to some things or else (they wouldn't get done). So I straightened up, change the bed, got to the dishes. I love Windex - I use it on everything - so I did my windex thing and looked around - Not too bad...My husband woke up a little early for a Saturday. Walking around like a caged bird or something... asking me what my plans for the day were... I told him I only had to go to supermarket... if he could take me and pick me up in an hour. He said he had to get a hair cut first--o.k. after the hair cut is good. So he left at 10Am and I went on with the house work, which was alot easier being alone. When he didn't get back by 2 I knew there would be no food shopping today.
He came back around 4 and I went down by my mom to get out of his way..my mom left her lotto numbers on the stairs with some money - asked if he'd go and play them for her..it was still raining. No problem - my mom and I ate around 5:30 and just spent some time together - finally I went downstairs to the basement to watch some t.v., tried doing a crossword and get some sleep - I heard my husband come in at 10 - but then I remembered the clock goes back tonight - so it was really 9.
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You deal with this much better than I could! I'm afraid things would be getting pretty ugly at my house before they got better! What am I saying?! They already did get ugly, and uglier, before they got better. But mine wasn't my husband (although he was the chief enabler), it was the crack cocaine addicted stepson. Life is better now, but had to go through really ugly stuff before it got that way. And I never forget that things will likely turn ugly again, over and over again, for him because he has chosen to not get help for his problem.
things get ugly around here too - but it always seems to take more out of me than him - it took a long time, but i learned to stay away from him to save me - we used to fight all night - only to find out he did not remember the next day - so much wasted energy and time - i try to stay away from that no matter what
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