Monday, August 31, 2009
No News Is Good News

My husband was laid off about two weeks ago. This never turns out good......first he feels he deserves the break.....then he feels the union should find him a job right away. I know he looks forward to his unemployment money ......we live with my mother, I work full time, so he does not feel any pressure paying bills......I always took that role. The nagging wife.....wrestling the weekly paycheck from him to pay lifes' bills....nothing special....the usual gas, electric, insurance, car, food, gifts, phone, cable, internet, rent,etc....bills that come along with life. He does not look for the bills....so i guess they don't exist in his world. "What are you doing with all the money I give you???" Oh...just living the high life!!
Well, Friday, I went to an office retirement lunch for a c0-worker. I am really going to miss her....she is a very nice woman and a good person to work with. Always helpful and never nasty or uppity (if she knew something you didn't). I work in a Union hall and there are a few people who have to put you and everyone else down to feel good about themselves....I'm thinking they are living with drunks too and don;t know how to cope.....who knows??? Anyway, the luncheon was great ...I ordered the shrimp franchese....love it....came with potatoes and string beans.....we had antipasto, baked clams, fried calamari.....pasta...salad...and cake!!! I ended the meal with a brandy alexander....My dad would always order one when we were out.....it was so good!!! We put Janie in a cab and we all hugged, kissed and cried and promised to get together......you know how that goes......really going to miss her and wishing her joy peace and laughter always.

My husband went upstate on Thursday and I have not heard from or seen him since. This is a small blessing....yet I'm hoping he is ok.....we are getting a divorce but I still don't want any harm to come to him...or for him to harm anyone. I guess I have to go with the idea of no news is good news. I have to remember that the Good Lord watches over us all. That He has a special plan for each of us. Time to stay out of my husbands business.

The pot of coffee is ready....so I'll have a cup and get ready and get myself off to work.

Sure to hear from him soon.....have a good day and be safe and hold on to your faith.
God Bless


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